SMOM - Why I celebrate my Step mom, Second moms and Special moms
Growing up, my family wasn't what you'd call "conventional." My parents divorced when I was just a toddler, and my dad eventually remarried. This brought a wonderful woman into my life who became my stepmom, but in my heart, she's always been my SMOM. From my perspective as a daughter, I can't help but celebrate the significance of step moms, second moms and Special moms!
Here are just a few reasons why:
1. Unconditional Love:
From the very beginning, my SMOM showed me unconditional love. She embraced me as her own, despite the fact that I wasn't her biological child. Her love wasn't limited by bloodlines but rather extended to the connection we shared. This unconditional love made me feel secure and cherished, and it's something I'll forever be grateful for.
2. Mentor and Friend:
My SMOM wasn't just a parental figure; she also became a mentor and friend. She offered guidance and support when I needed it most, helping me navigate the ups and downs of life. She wasn't a replacement for my biological mom, but an addition to my support system, providing a unique perspective and valuable life lessons.
3. Role Model:
As I grew up, I found myself looking up to my SMOM as a role model. She exemplified strength, resilience, and kindness. Her ability to gracefully handle the complexities of blended families and co-parenting was a testament to her character. She showed me that families come in all shapes and sizes and that love transcends traditional boundaries.
4. Blending Traditions:
One of the most beautiful aspects of having a SMOM is the blending of traditions and experiences. I was introduced to new customs, celebrations, and family rituals. These experiences enriched my life and taught me the beauty of diversity, not just in our family but in the world at large.
5. The Power of Choice:
A SMOM represents a choice, a conscious decision to love and nurture a child who may not share the same genes but shares the same heart. This choice holds immense significance, as it demonstrates that love isn't confined to biology; it's a matter of the heart.
In conclusion, stepmoms, second moms, special moms or SMOMS, play an indispensable role in the lives of daughters like me. Their love, guidance, and support shape us into the individuals we become. They show us the true meaning of family, which is not just about blood but about love, care, and choice. I am blessed to have a second mom in my life, and her significance cannot be understated. SMOM'S are heroes who deserve recognition and gratitude for the love and warmth they bring into our lives.
Love,
Jaclyn